Thursday, February 21, 2008

Love

* This post right here, is just a little thoughts of mine ... it shouldn't be, and I repeat "shouldn't be" used against me in any ways ...



Ever thought that what's love about?

Well, I can tell you ... at the beginning of it all ... it's just pure

L.O.V.E.

I love you, you love me, type of thingy...

Naive right? But I'd love to tell you that "love" includes every aspect of your life ... Those factor includes

  • Friends (If they don't like your other half, then you're torn in between)
  • Family (If they're not happy with your other half, you're prolly dead)
  • Studies (If you're too busy competing with the nut case in your class, which might have PhD *Permanent Head Damage* , may I please suggest, DON'T be in a relationship)
  • Work (If you plan to work your ass off, I would advise you to break up with your partner and just prolly MARRY YOUR JOB instead)

Yea, when you first fell in love ... you do all those romantic, lovey dovey stuff .. which by the way lasts for about a couple of months ... then you ran out of ideas and probably got frustrated in thinking of romantic ideas, you'd just ask your partner

"Eh baby/darling, what you want? I lazy to think de lar"

(Well, sorry bout my english usage here, I'm Malaysian "mar") Haha!


My best friend's boyfriend actually asked me

"Eh, no more romantic stuff hor?"

.....

And believe it or not ... I told him ...

"Still got la ..."

Hahahaha! Then he answer me ...

"Wait few months more la har"

=.=!!!
Sweat!



Well, not to make fun of it here ... but it's just pure facts ... Hey, this little "facts" here applies to me as well, you know, I didn't say I'm excluded, I'm NOT that innocent anyways, haha!

Do not ever think that you've been with that person for a long long time (prolly since Ice Age) that you don't need to do all those romantic lovey dovey stuff like giving surprises on special ocassion

*Warning: Don't do this if your partner have a history of heart attack*

You still need to do romantic stuff to keep your relationship alive ... to make sure that they know, you still appreciate them for being by your side after all these years (and not running off with another guy, Thank God!)



Along the way ... some of you prolly got fed up and just leave those lovey dovey stuff aside ... TILL

*drum rolls*

TILL ... the moment you actually broke up with your boyfriend/girlfriend, haha! Funny that all those stuff that you've promised, and all those romantic ideas just pop-up right out of your brain ... You've prolly chuck all those promises elsewhere in your brain and you found it just in time for your break-up ...

Example: Using candle to form some kind of message and take pictures of it ... Oh GOD! I can't believe I did that before ... but I'm just helping a friend ... I'm not in any way doing it for myself ...

Want to do something for your other half?

May I suggest that you do it before you broke up with them ... coz it's pathetic to do so after what has happened ...

I've seen this kind of situation thousands of times and people sure never get bored of it ... but I sure did

I'm pretty sure that none of us learn anything from this situation *yes I'm included, AGAIN*, coz if we did, I wouldn't have seen this thousands of times ...

You know what ... love is NEVER , in any way, easy ... you have to be committed to one another ... Hmm .. I may seem like a know-it-all adviser here ... I'm not in any way, have the rights to advise anyone in the matter of love ...

Love will always be love ... it'll always be complicated ... it's like maths to me ...

MATHS = COMPLICATED

I don't always know how to work out the equation ... but you can be sure that I always try my best ... and I do seek help along the way, when I'm lost ...






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